Often, his these
'recruiting missions' is different to his conduct within the 'cult'.
In the first phases of wooing new admirers and proselytising to potential 'conscripts' — the narcissist is attentive, compassionate, empathic, felxible, self-effacing, and helpful. At home, among the "veterans" he is tyrannical, demanding, wilful, opinionated, aggressive, and exploitative.
As the leader of his congregation,
the narcissist feels entitled to special amenities and benefits not accorded the "rank of file." He expects to be waited on hand and foot, to make free use of everyone's money and dispose of their assets liberally, and to be cynically exempt from the rules that he himself established (if such violation is pleasurable or gainful).
In extreme cases,
the narcissist feels above the law — any kind of law. This grandiose and haughty conviction leads to criminal acts, incestuous or polygamous relationships, and recurrent friction with the authorities.
Hence the narcissist's panicky and sometimes violent reactions to "dropouts" from his cult.
There's a lot going on that narcissist wants kept under wraps. Moreover, the narcissist stabilizes his fluctuating sense of self-worth by deriving Narcissistic Supply from his victims. Abandonment threatens the narcissist's precariously balanced personality.
Add to that
the narcissist's paranoid and schizoid tendencies, his lack of introspective self-awareness, and his stunted sense of humor (lack of self-deprecation) and the risk to the grudging members of his cult are clear.
The narcissist sees enemies and conspiracies everywhere. He often casts himself as the heroic victim (martyr) of dark and stupendous forces. In every deviation from his tenets he espies malevolent and ominous subversion. He, therefore, is bent on disempowering his devotees — by any and all means.
The narcissist is dangerous.
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Now let us see if there are similarities between this description and what we know about Muhammad and his religion.
Islam is both missionary and imperialistic. Muhammad's main objective was to conquer and dominate. He tried to force everyone to